“You’re not coming to my birthday party!” In the world of three year olds, this is the ultimate threat. In my time in the classroom, I heard children throw this phrase around almost daily. It was prompted by a broken block structure, an unwillingness to share, a disagreement over what to play, or a myriad of other seemingly-trivial issues. The hurt child was making a point the way he or she knew how: “I am angry with you!” Amazingly, the argument almost never lasted more than